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Not Your Average Family.

But you probably figured that out from the picture.

We forget, quite often, that we are a different family, and we suspect that our friends and relatives have a lot of questions about us that they are just too polite to ask. So this blog is for them, but it is also intentionally public.

It’s our hope that, by getting to know us, we can change some preconceived notions of what it means to be a family and what it means to understand and truly love someone, no matter the differences. 

We want to let people know that our differences do not matter — everyone has the capacity to love someone who differs from them, if you just get a chance to know them. Truly, we are more alike that we are different.

We want to show you that, and we want to share our journey and some of the moments that have made us who we are. We hope to inspire you in your journey, especially if it is one that involves adoption.

5 cities, 6 schools, 17 years

This weekend, we’ll celebrate Dawn’s 17th birthday. Seems impossible that so many years have passed since we first held her, this adorable baby. So much has changed. Many of the big changes have occasioned deep grief and a long process of growth: moving houses, moving schools, moving states, getting confined to the house for the…

As The Kids Grow

Written by Danelle. Life goes by so quickly, doesn’t it? It feels like time flies by at the speed of light once you have children. They are visual proof of how fast time flies by. Darnell is growing so quickly, and since I was an only child who got a stepsister later in life and…

How to Succeed in 3 Steps

Written by Stephanie As you may know, I’ve been working for a leadership development and executive coaching company for several years now, which means I’ve had the opportunity and the tools to study what it takes to succeed, particularly in talent-based situations. I’ve been motivated not only by the desire to help my kids as…

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